I try

I try to be a nice person. I try. It isn’t enough though because people still think I’m terrible. I was trying to do a nice thing by commenting on this girl I know’s blog regularly, making her know someone was reading it, and giving her nice comments. I was just trying to be nice. I did it anonymously though, so she didn’t know who had said the nice things. She replied to me at the time, thanking me and whatnot.

I checked her blog again today only to find she’d deleted all my comments. Every single one. Every single nice comment I’d made. I’m just done.

I’m obviously not a nice person. I try to be but I probably won’t ever be. I’m just nothing, I guess. Just nothing.

17 thoughts on “I try

  1. That’s so rude of them! Comment interaction is literally how you engage people and increase traffic with your blogs, and looking back on comments on a bad day is always a good thing. I love receiving comments, and treasure them. The thought of deleting any of them would never even cross my mind. At least now you know she didn’t appreciate it, and can focus your attention towards people who do value your time, I suppose. I’m so sorry it happened to you, though–I can’t imagine how rubbish that would make me feel.

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      1. People are ridiculously stupid sometimes. You don’t know what you miss until it’s gone and all that. I’m sure a lot of people think you’re worth something to them. I know we don’t know each other very well, but I definitely appreciate you. I genuinely love your blog posts. Don’t waste time on people who don’t deserve it.

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      1. That’s so weird. There has to be some sort of reasoning behind it. I wonder why she’s doing that to you instead of telling what made her upset. Gosh, I hate it when people run away from situations like that. Super frustrating.

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  2. What the hell? that person is just messed up and plain rude – that doesn’t mean YOU’RE not nice though. You try so hard to be nice an trust me you are, you really are. Don’t think otherwise 🙂 Li Li you are the nicest person I’ve ever met.

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      1. Nah, I’m not stopping until you repeat after me: “LIA IS NICE, I AM NICE, TBH I’M BETTER THAN NICE. HELL YEAH! I’M AMAZING AND WONDERFUL AND I AIN’T GONNA LET ANYBODY TELL ME OTHERWISE. K? THOSE PEOPLE CAN GO STICK THEIR HEAD IN A TOILET AN FLUSH IT. K? LI LI IS JUST THE LOVELIEST PERSON NAMED LIA IN THE UNIVERSE. DAMN, THAT’S RIGHT. THAT’S WHY THEY CALL ME LOVELY LIA.”

        Sorry did I go a bit far? 😜

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  3. The same thing happened to me, I tried to comment on someone’s blog once (it was someone who was struggling with depression, and since my blog revolves around mental health and happiness, I figured why not.) and tried to tell them to have strength.

    My comment ended up being deleted, with no response at all.

    Comment interaction is important in blogging, and I must say that’s very rude. Don’t let it get to you, it’s not worth it.❤️

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